The event was actually organized like a Mehndi, even included a Dulha and Dulhan and a had guy's side and a girl's side.Ā This event had all the elements of a mehndi such as singing competitions, all the rasms, mithai, entrance of the dulha and dulhan and most importantly, the mehndi as well. Ā People were even jumping on the stage to get pictures taken with the dulha and dulhan.
Whoever was able to make it to the event on Friday night, how did you feel about the event? What did you like and what didn't you like about the event.Ā Leave your comments below and share your thoughts!
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written by Talha , March 01, 2009
the event was fun!! u guys should keep doing events like this!!!
written by Mirza , March 01, 2009
i don't know .. but it felt like it was a failed attempt of the organizer to feel like a dulhan!! .. she just wanted the attention.. and just wanted to feel like a dulhan... shaadi tak intezaar nahi kar sakti thi!?
written by Asad , March 01, 2009
It was like me going to chuckecheese with my nephews
These kind of events should have an age limit lets say 21+ and for formals 23+
atleast tht wud get a much decent crowd
NO KIDS ALLOWED it was a mess
written by Mirza , March 01, 2009
couldn't agree more man... lol.. it was a sad event.. i would rather go to a family mehndi party if i really wanted to attend a wedding with kids
written by Rohail Majid , March 01, 2009
It was nothing more than an excuse for winter-starved girls to dress up and show themselves off. It was nothing more than an excuse for our desperate 'romeos' to do 'poondy' and check out the girls they would want to stalk for the rest of the year.
Easy as that.
Never again.
written by Mirza , March 01, 2009
nicely put rohail!
written by Tabassum F. Nawaz , March 01, 2009
Give some credit to the organizers, they tried their best at least. It was a unique event and they did their best to make it like a real Mehndi while realizing the limits of such an event in a university atmosphere and the limitations of the premises as well.
You "cool" kids can go hang out in your clubs with 21+ and 23+ wala loog.
And what kind of marketing of an event would that be anyhow; why would an intelligent marketing team put caps on age when students are admitted into 1st year at age 18, and are expected to graduate at 22.
The dulhan was adorable, I think she did a wonderful job.
written by Saima , March 01, 2009
completely agree with the posts above.. it was a failed attempt of a "dulhan" trying to get attention with her bf?.. why not go get engaged offically and have your own mehndi?..
and the age thing..definitely a bunch of highschool girls using the event as an excuse to get permission to go out from mommy and daddy..
PSA has definitely gone pathetic this year.. if this is how its gonna be.. doubt anyone matures gonna end up going to the formal..
bit of advice..stick to a few events..but make them classy..
written by Farhan , March 01, 2009
next time, do these type of events at home.. so retarded..
written by Salman , March 01, 2009
If I had known earlier it was gonna be a bunch of little girls, actaully doing a mehndi .. never would wasted my ten bucks.. i rather burn those ten dollars than come to another gay event like this..
written by B Jaffery , March 01, 2009
To the 7th poster above, I think most folks are talking about the fact that event was bit different in terms of imitating a very personal and emotional moment in any girl's life. Most girls I know would want to have the 'perfect mehandi, reception and the perfect dress to go along with it'. Definitely something that is very personal.
Even from a guy's perspective, an event as such this would be 'mine' and I would definitely not like to get it imitated.
I personally found the crowd to be rather cheesy as well, and there is definitely no association with the cool aka as you mentioned clubbing crowd. Clubbing crowd is also very cheap crowd and definitely not something that I would personally be caught dead in even. I just thought the whole feel of the event turned out to be more of a MELA crowd -- which I am sure was not the intention of the organizers.
I do agree that the event organizers promoted and sold out a great event. It was different and kudos to Sana and the rest of the crew. You guys did an amazing job. As an ex-PSA head, I know the amount of work it takes to organize such an event.
However, from my own personal taste, I just found the cheap guys crowd to be a turn off. It wasn't their fault, events such as these do attract the wrong 'cheap' crowd as well.
Just my 2 cents.
Bilal
written by Farrukh , March 01, 2009
u can't expect a good crowd when you're charging 10 dollars.. but if the organizers charge more for such an event.. than ppl would complain as well..
written by B Jaffery , March 01, 2009
If money could filter out bad crowd, we would've had no problems at formal events. Many in the past were 'destroyed' by drunkards and gang related fights.
Its just the whole concept that just attracts the wrong crowds.
Through my experience, I have realized that best way to filter out bad crowd is attaching your cause with a charity. Automatically, the lafanga and cheap crowd dissappears!
Afterall, how can 'I' pick up the 'gyals' when I have to be involved in raising funds for little kids, Iraq, Aids, Poverty related issues'? My conscience and mindset wouldn't allow such a thing.
I have organized events with my charity organization for $15 and the efforts attracted a more mature, yet friendly, crowd as well.
written by B Jaffery , March 01, 2009
Case in point, I would like to personally thank Sana for her help with our charity projects as well. She has been a tremendous support!
written by AA , March 01, 2009
PLEASE FOR THE PSA FORMAL ONLY ALLOW UNIVERSITY PEOPLE OR OLDER TO ATTEND... NO HIGHSCHOOLERS!!!!!! ISSUE UNIVERSITY ID CHECKS OR SOMETHING TO FILTER THEM OUT...
written by Maha G. , March 01, 2009
Now, i can understand why most guys may have been bored at the begning
since usually the dholak part is for the girls,
i feel that part could have been altered to involve everyoneelse aswell, instead of people sitting on chairs bored out of their mind. this event was GREAT if you were involved, maybe not so much if you werent. I dont think theres a way to stop a cheap crowd since boys will take every opportunity to hit on girls whether its in a mall or at an event, theres no stopping that. I do disagree that people have said that this was an occasion for bored girls to get dolled up and show themselves off since that happens even at weddings, and its not to show themselves off, maybe younger girls since that is the cool thing to do in highschool, but maybe not older girls. Mehndis are usually meant to be fun with girls dressed up to their fulllest. I think this event did what it set out to do, it was advertised as a mehndi, and it trullyy was a mehndi. i personally thought the DJ was awesome for the event and im sure everyone enjoyed the open dancefloor. Also, i dont exactly understand why people who are 21 and older consider everyone younger than them 'kids'. Im sure when most of you were 18-19 you wanted to go to ALLLLL these events and im sure not ALL of you were immature or children or caused a huge mess at events. it depends on the individual, some highschoolers are very mature for their age and i bet some of you couldnt even tell them apart for the uni students. I think the only people who complain about age limits are the ones who are expecting to hit on girls and later discover that they are still in highschool and you start to feel a little to old for the event. This is a Pakistani student association and im glad they allow all pakistanis to their events. The purpose of such events are to get dressed and dance the night away and i dont recall seeing anything different than that. I also dont think the dulha dulhan wanted attention, they were the presidents of those PSA's and they wouldnt need to be in the spotlight for attention since they can achieve that in many other ways. I didnt see the dulhan excessively glamorized or the dulha taking things too seriously, this was meant for jokes to set the mood right for the occasion.
overall, GREAT event, most people i know had an amazing time and are pumped for the PSA formal.
written by TS , March 02, 2009
I agree with majority of the comments and can say without hesitation that the event was a total disappointment. I wasted money and time going to the event only to leave it within an hour because it was so ridiculous.
First off, the catch phrase of the event, ācause there will be no aunties!ā was unreasonable. As a Pakistani Association, we should be proud of our traditions and our cultures and Iām sure these Aunties are part of it. We're all capable of causing drama, not just Aunties. Regardless, if there are Aunties there or not, there will be drama. Oh, by the way, the āAuntiesā includes everyoneās mom, including the mom of the person who came up with the catch phrase. So, not only are you accusing everybody elseās mom of stirring up drama but your own mom too. Good job (y).
Donāt get me wrong, Iām not opting for Aunties to come to this event. I just think that the catch phrase was disgraceful.
Timing for this event was absolutely horrible. February 27th was the 1st/2nd day of Rabiā Ul-Awwal. Iām sure a lot of people didnāt know of the date either which is why itās PSAās job to set appropriate dates. If events are rescheduled because people have midterms and such, then they should be rescheduled in respect to important Islamic events too. If rescheduling this event clashed with the PSA Formal, well then, something has to be sacrificed. Has anybody been keeping up-to-date the news? Situations in Pakistan arenāt all that great and we are all aware of that, Iām sure. How has PSA helped the situation in Pakistan? The year is nearly over in another 2 months, and I have yet to hear about a charity event to support Pakistan through this difficult time. As a more mature age group, we should be planning events that are sophisticated and classic while holding/helping some sort of cause.
Now, moving on to the comment above mine... Iām assuming youāre in high school at the moment which is why youāre fired up about why there are issues with high school attendees attending university events. If not, then I apol⦠actually, no. I donāt care
. There is a reason why high schoolers werenāt supposed to attend this event because it is a UNI Ū°VERŪ°SITY event. If high schoolers want to attend such events, they should organize it at their own school with their own age group or wait their turn; we all did. You think the only people complaining about age limits are the ones who hit on high school girls. Trust me, nobody felt old coming to this event. A bit disappointed? Yes. I think you may have misinterpreted their feeling. They probably werenāt feeling old but maybe a bit stupid for attending a UNIVERSITY event full of a high school crowd. And no, not ALL Pakistanis were invited; remember the Aunties were discriminated against?
āI dont think theres a way to stop a cheap crowd since boys will take every opportunity to hit on girls whether itās in a mall or at an event, theres no stopping thatā. Haha, wow, arrogant much? Thatās a very bizarre comment to make because I could just turn it around onto the girls. Anyhow, Iām not going to make sexist comments like that. Iām sure there are enough perverts in both sexes to go around.
I believe Mehndiās and all other Wedding events consist of values, traditions, customs that need to be followed. These cannot and should not be mimicked. If people wanted to dance the night away, then it shouldāve just been another formal. I agree that wedding events are personal and impersonating an event like this was just plain weird.
Overall, this event was a just a sad attempt of having fun. It was a reason for all the PSA execs to party while the rest sat around and watched them act like hooligans. By the way, girls who were constantly on different shoulders, I suggest you look up self-respect in the dictionary.
Apart from that, Iām sure it was hard to organize an event and while I wish I could say āGood Jobā, I really canāt.
written by Maha G , March 02, 2009
well actually im not in highschool! i was just saying that when i was in highschool i wanted to attend such events and i didnt for the same reason bieng that they are meant for the university crowd. I am just saying that the event was not promoted as just a university event
it was pretty much open to everyone 'expect for aunties'.
I just dont see how highschoolers get in peoples way... if its the maturity level, well there weere many people who attended who were from uni and they were highly immature, i personally just dont understand the reason why theres a problem with highschoolers attending such events if their simply just there to have fun. I just dont think that psa events should isolate students from highschool who might have siblings in university and just want to tag along and bringing a few friends. and about the comment on the boys hitting on girls, well you can say it about girls too.. i just directed it towards boys since ive seen that happen more often from my experience, i dont mean to offend anyone. I totally agree that we should respect our traditions and elders and not mock such events but everyone knew this was meant for fun and its okay if it did not suit everyones taste in events. Im not taking any sides here, just saying that this event was fun and im not expecting everyone to agree i just wanted to defend somethings that were said and i felt were not correct. And i completely agree with your statement about psa holding events supporting pakistan through tough times.
written by akash p , March 02, 2009
all u guys need to calm down with the hating...no need to go out n say stuff like
'it was a failed attempt of a "dulhan" trying to get attention with her bf?'
just take the event for what it was...a play on an actual mehndi ki raat....what did u expect exactly?
its what u would be expecting...mehndi, dancing and a dulha and dulhan
u guys need to just calm down
written by fake , March 03, 2009
lol love how no one commented on any of your other reviews for other events, but somehow people decided to comment on this one, an attempt by some of the website owners to bash the event because of personal reasons while staying "politically correct", so that PSF/PSA will still invite them to other events. GJ desivibe hopefully you guys still will be invited to other events ... oo and ya the event was alright i guess
written by TS , March 03, 2009
^ I suppose people are commenting on this review more than the others only because it was written on the event's wall a couple of times to check out the photos and the event review. When people come to the website to look at pictures, they naturally come and leave a comment. At least that's what I did.
Plus, I'm sure nobody has anything personal against the event or the organizers, they just merely stated their opinion. I believe there is something called the 'Freedom of Speechā, no?
If you put something out there, you have to expect some negative feedback as well as positive. This world is not all flowers and butterflies, unfortunately. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and Iām sure they wouldnāt bash this event without reason. After all, it is an event review; its primary purpose is to receive feedback on the event. The review written at the top by the website owner doesnāt seem to be bashing the event, really.
Just to make things clear, I am not the websiteās owner nor do I have any connections with them. I donāt think anyone is freaking out about or āhatingā on the event either as it is over and done with. āHatingā is a strong word, and this whole shebang is not āhatingā, itās called ācritiquingā. If weāre leaving our comments, itās only because we wish for PSA(ās) to get their acts together.
written by sameer khan , March 03, 2009
please excuse my accent i dont know much englis but i vwent to marriage event and i tink this is too much all u kids play aroind with my feelings of my culture. bride and groom are they really in laove? going to get married soon? engagement? this is giving islam a bad name! it was horrible i wasted 10$ on this event and i am very much angry yaar!!! if you ever try to do this again please try and get a beautiful traditional bride who has some shame.. like the one we have back home. dont give her so much attention u know. the groom was pleaseing to the eyes, not bad. but owerall the event was very pity. didnt enjoy one bit. only came to see girls dancing on guy shoulders ..shame. shame puppy shame. anyways that is all jsut dont do this again.
written by DesiVibe , March 03, 2009
Hello,
In regards to the comment about DesiVibe, the reason why other articles/event reviews may not have comments is mainly because DesiVibe just recently changed the layout of the whole website a week ago and due to that reason new components were installed hence why we lost all the previous comments.
DesiVibe has been promoting PSA events along with all the other cultural events from other different organizations for the past 3 years or so and will continue doing so, and this event was no different. Even including the previous PSA event featuring RDB, which we gave full video coverage to was another successful event held by PSA. ( http://www.desivibe.ca/event-r...ami-halaat )
The comments on these boards merely represent the public view and not of DesiVibe.
Thanks,
DesiVibe
written by Anita Qureshi , March 03, 2009
sameer khan....
are you for real?
written by Yasmin , March 03, 2009
yea.. sameer.. u sound like some guy with an old uncle soul in him.. u shouldnt even be at an event like this! how old r u?!!
written by khan power , March 03, 2009
sameer khan are you atef latif?
written by Maha G , March 03, 2009
lol @ sameer khan.. hahahaha 'puppy hame' oh god.. that was hilarious.. sorry if you actually talk like that.. i dont mean to offend you, i guess it just came out funny.
written by Farhan , March 03, 2009
yaar.. who cares if u liked the event or not.. no one forced u to go to it.. u all came at ur own will.. and judging from the pics.. everyone stuck around for the whole event.. so really.. it seems like u all liked it. .. and if u hadnt . .. u coulda just walked out after eating.. u would pay $10 to eat somewhere else anyways.. so quit ur whining and dont go to these kinda events if ur gonna keep talking crap..
written by B Jaffery , March 04, 2009
Hilarious, obviously, you know that is some joker, creative though.
In the end, it was a good event and as someone posted, it was only $10! We spend more than that on movies!
Even if I wasn't happy with the cheap mela crowd that ended up coming (possibly due to no restrictions on highschool crowd), it was entertaining! Maybe next time, we can throw in a charity affiliation, age restriction and have another SOLD out event like this one!
Atleast, it wasn't empty!!
But I do want to meet Sameer Khan properly though. Maybe do an Interview!!
Regards,
Bilal Jaffery
written by alig , March 04, 2009
it was a nice event
let me tell you 75% was high skoolerzz
and people who knows how to have fun
they had there chilling so if u didnt like the show
then i guess you dont know what chilling means?
or your a white wash paki who doesnt know who to have fun on mehndi night
like why u guys crying for for $10 you get to see nice girls dance floor and food
and for $10 i got 10 numberz from beautiful girls so i am good
what else you guys want man lol gotta give respect to psa team man
i had a nice team people who didnt come to me i will tell you how to chill in this kind of events
mela scene all da way nigga... dont hate.. we paki so our pride is everywhere dawg..
dont write here if you guys wanted to say something you should have said on our face on the event peace out
pakistan zindabadddddddddd
written by Sarah M , March 04, 2009
Only issue was the high schoolers. Please I beg you Execs to please check IDs in the future especially to the Formal. And if you high schoolers are proclaiming that you're fun people then please go have your own events in your schools. No need to come to our events and act stupid and talk shit.
Atleast we should have one event with no HIGH SCHOOL people.
Also, I heard the dulha and dulhan were the presidents of PSA, how fair is that are you telling me they nominated them selves? lolz how lame of them
written by Sarah M , March 04, 2009
Also I think PSA is all about making money now. If you guys can allow high schoolers then guess what from now on I'm going to start bringing elemantary school kids and ruin your so called FUN night or even AUNTIES.
written by sameer khan , March 04, 2009
just like event i am so offended. u are all teasing me and think i am not angry??? i am very much so angryy at all this commenting u know. i come here to post what opineion i has about the wedding ceremony just like rest of the commenterts and all u say to me i s i am joker? this is very much hurtful u know. please i only express my disppoinment to this henna. what is wrong doin in that?? and i am no celebrity im not making jokes here...why eveyrone holding on to shame shame puppy shame? u never hear that?? ohh all are making very funny jokes at my expencive. ok good to see how wery much i am welcomed here as a fellow PAkistani.
s.p. please respecting my opineion and fleeings. thanks you to all.
written by maha , March 04, 2009
I dont think theres a need for highschoolers at these events, but if they REALLY wanna come.. i dont think its a problem.
but thats upto psa, it doesnt really affect me whether they come or not.
written by Sarah Khan , March 04, 2009
This whole event extremely fake. Good way to fund your mehendi. I guess the dulha dulhan did their real mehendi by saying it was fake lol.
and plz PSA needs to make sure that they check IDs at PSA formal or this event would turn like the fake mehendi event as well.
written by Junaid Bhatti , March 04, 2009
I agree with the above comment. AND I SWEAR THE GIRL WITH THE YELLOW DRESS WAS EXTREMELY ANNOYING. WHY THE HELL WAS SHE GOING UP TO EVERY RANDOM GUY IN THE ROOM AND ASKING THEM TO PICK HER UP. what a desperate girl.
it was really disturbing to watch. such cheap girls taking over the event.
i hope we dont see her annoyingness in the PSA formal.
written by Anita Q , March 04, 2009
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL i agreeee with you man
wth was she doing
written by Faisal K. , March 04, 2009
For the first time, PSA actually attempted to show a traditional aspect of Pakistani culture. Kudos to the organizers.
With regards to the comments above, you guys really showed your decency. You guys don't want high schoolers because they 'talk shit' as written above..well what exactly do you 'mature' people think you're doing? There's something called constructive criticism, but you all are full out bashing the event.
If Junaid Bhatti sahab wants to talk about a girl's respect, what makes you so respectful when you decide to single out one girl in a crowd? That's smart, real smart.
When I was invited to the facebook event, it was CLEARLY written in the description what I can expect and they followed through with that. I enjoyed it and by the amount of people that stayed til the end of the event, clearly the majority enjoyed too.
Folks, you went to a FAKE mehndi. Nobody needs to be shy, I'm sure they can wait til their own mehndis for that.
As for that uncle who wanted this event to be 21+ and the formal to be 23+, you can start chilling at the seniors home cause buddy, this event is not for post-grads and beyond, it's for ALL university students.
written by Rabia , March 04, 2009
I agree with Faisal... this is an all university event which means that even first year students are allowed to go to it, and usually the first year students are 17-18...
written by Sarah M , March 04, 2009
First of all I dont have a problem with PSAs event and I think it was a really good initiative. It just went all wrong because of the people. Now you're telling me that me thinking high schoolers shouldnt be allowed makes me think like an immature? Are you serious? Dude I have a full right to my opinion what part of a university event dont you get? Or maybe you are the high schooler here yourself. Im trying to make things better here, all Im asking for the events to be more organized with a decent crowd. Is that too much to ask for?
and to the comment above hellloo we all know that first year students are 17 -18 years of age. We have a problem with "high schoolers" regardless of their age.
written by Faisal K. , March 04, 2009
My, my, Sarah.
I'm in 4th year beti. Afsos ki baat hai that as you age, people get wiser but all of you will never let go of your shitty desi mentality.
It was only $10 right? Then why didn't you leave? I'm sure the organizers could care less if you all left.
What exactly is your problem with age? What the hell did you see a highschooler doing that night exactly that makes you think they're less mature than you? How exactly do you label them as highschoolers?
Grow up kiddos. The next time you see an event being executed for the first time, appreciate it. Otherwise, take your leave and keep your smack talk to yourself. Creating drama out of nothing is in your nature.
written by Faisal K. , March 04, 2009
p.s. I'm sure a lot of people agree on excluding highschoolers (I'm with you on this one) but you need to calm your aunty senses and stop pointing fingers at an age group for no apparent reason.
As far as the event goes, it was a success regardless of your rants. No one was kicked out (yes, that includes the so- called immature highschoolers you refer to) and no one caused problems (again, that includes the highschoolers).
Arguing without a bais? Typical.
written by Sarah M , March 04, 2009
not respecting someones opinion? Typical
If you want to argue do it a decent manner. I wont waste my time you're not worth it.
written by Maha , March 04, 2009
Its okay to have an opinion
but you dont have valid points to backup your opinion, again i dont mean to offend you
but it just seems like many people have just been bashing highschoolers for no reason since nothing at this event or related to this event was ruined or destroyed by any highschool crowd so your opinion would have no relevance underneath this event review.
Im not directing this at you sarah, maybe to the people who commented earlier since they were the ones who started the bashing.
written by Taha Qureshi , March 05, 2009
PSA appreciates your comments however please do not make it sound inflammatory and offensive towards PSA. What do u mean by the dulhan wanted to attention ? ah-Duh never been to a brown mehndi/wedding before i mean the Dulha & The Dulhan are the highlight of the evening.
Anyway facts up front this event was FULLY sold out we had over 100 people who didnt get tickets bcuz it was sold out. For us it was a successful event. All PSA execs worked very hard to bring this event together.
As far as high schoolers are concerned i dont think the crowd is made up of high school crowd its usually the siblings of university students or vice versa. Maybe 10% and these events are not ADULT events or its not like we're doing anything which should be limited to people under 21 or 23 so whoever said the age thing.
PSA unfortunately cannot put an age on the events bcuz usually you enter university at even the age of 17 and graduate 21 22. We definitely don't ONLY want PHD or graduate students at our events who are 24 25 or undergraduates stuck in university at the age of 23 24. Therefore unfortunately those of you concerned with the age of the crowd sorry bu PSA cannot do anything to accommodate your concerns as we're committed to equality and we cannot do anything about people's age.
Unfortunately right now its not PSA's big concern to do anything about high school students either however, we will take that into consideration . We personally do not think high school students are a problem as they only make up 10% of the crowd as mentioned earlier. Maybe university students should take the initiate to get involved and buy all the tickets on time and actually attend events so no tickets can be sold to non-university students. As event organizers one of our incentive is to make sure its a sold out event we are not guna sit here and not sell tickets to people bcuz they dont go to university or they're below 21.
written by alig , March 06, 2009
people who didnt had fun on this event are mommy daddy kids who dont know what paki mehndi is straight up its not even about high school kids well if they wanna come and have fun let them come but i think this time the crowd was way better then hungami halat you guys should only stop drunkies and charsi desperate guys who never seen girls ever in there life you know the stalker material who scare girls away who you will think cause drama inside wanna be wanktaz should be kicked out from the door for psa just have some tuff guy on the door not some mommy daddy kid trust me make me the door person imma make psa so smooth because if guys like them come then you only see drunk ppl on the dance floor they scare girls away let me give u nice advice just check idz from guys who you think are charsi high skool wanna be who will creat drama because psa event we wanna keep clean and everyone wants to have fun rather seing this drunk guys scaring girls away then it will be waste of a night lets hope we make it a live night
peace
written by Maham , March 06, 2009
^
^ Full stops would be nice. What would we better would if you used commas as well, exclamation marks? You killed my brain cells with that paragraph essay/sentence/whatever it was. There's a reason we learn grammar, use it.
^ Yeah, because that's the type of spirit we're looking for. Girls on shoulders, awesome.
As for this whole comment issue, it's becoming a bashfest now.
written by mo , March 07, 2009
ok so girls danced on shoulders ...big deal get over it...we have left our pinds behind folks now its time the pind leaves us...capiche
written by TS , March 07, 2009
Mo: Seriously? Did you also leave Islam behind?
Girls dancing on shoulders is more like bringing Pind to the event. There is nothing respectable, classy or sophisticated about it.
written by NKU , March 07, 2009
@Fasial K ā Mehndi aka vivaah is a culture migrated from India, and one of the main rituals of any Hindu wedding. It is not entirely a ātraditional aspect of Pakistani cultureā as you have mentioned above.
Most Hindu weddings are compromise of the following pre-marriage activities:
-Barni Bandhwana ā prayers to remove obstacles
-Mamara ā traditional welcome of maternal uncle by bride/groomās mother
-Sangeet Sandhya ā musical night
-Tilak Ceremony ā turmeric powder applied to the groomās forehead
-Mehndi - applied to the brideās hands and feet.
According to the Hindu custom the bride must not step out of the house after the mehndi ritual until her marriage. The bride's female cousins sometimes apply a dot of mehndi on the palm of the groom. Another Hindu custom dictates that the deeper the color of henna, the stronger the family relationship will be and her overall relationship will be a happy one.
Overall, this thread is interesting, and everyone have something interesting to share. Lets provide constructive feedback to the organizers, and lets hope that PSA-UTM, and all PSAs appreciate the attendees feedback.
written by Nabeel H , March 08, 2009
Nice event, Nice Dj ,Nice Perfomance
(y) just food was not that great, I was expecting some butter chicken and biryani
but its all good what do you expect the tix was only 10, so it's worth it
also saw some surprising thingz you all know what I am talking about as you guys are discussing about it lol. written by tera baap , March 08, 2009
r u guys being serious, this was an amazing event organized by PSA for the first time. It was creative, different and very sweet little event. I dont know about u losers who have been saying all that nonsense, but everybody that I know had a great time that night. Certain amount of criticism is healthy but u guys just exceeded the limit.
written by sameer khan , March 08, 2009
Wait before i start let me stop.
you...okay this is no joke bringing the baap and the maa into the conversing of makroo topics of such the bride was that night. and as for you boy in the above box that night was nothign good coming short of the bad. this is not sweet methai ewent it was more like a bitte rimli taste in my nose. fools! all who attended and wasted 10$.!! the event is not creative because let me tell interesting secret if you go back to homecountry you will see taht many others are also going to ewents like this only they call it A SHAADI..!
sorry to all who have becoming my friend on here...i dont mean to upset. its just that fake ewents for purpose of smile giving is not good idea. disgrace to my religionculture and i will not have toleration.~
s.p. shame shame puppy shame on all
written by desi munda , March 09, 2009
sameer khan is one of those guys who just come to look at girls and stalk them all night, btw dude you really need to take some esl classes, it's about time you join one because your english is higher level english that only you understands.
Sameer khan is one of those guys who gives you line paper when you ask for zig zag.
Sameer khan is one of those guys who sends shahrukh pic and turns out to be amrish puri on wedding night
Sameer khan is one of those guys who add girls from hotmail fwdz.
ok mr joker
now you laugh at you own diss
peace
written by A Guy , March 10, 2009
Ok, so you all didn't enjoy the event. Point taken. Now for some points of my own:
1) you keep complaining about $10 being wasted, but come on, its TEN DOLLARS. Are we really that poor that we can't let that go?
2) If you didn't like it, why didn't you leave? No one was making you stay.
3) You people thinking who those girls on ppl's shoulders have no self respect.. Here's an idea.. Why don't you improve yourselves before criticizing and judging others. I am pretty sure none of you are perfect. And if im wrong, please forgive me.
4) All of you who are complaining about high schoolers, I take it there will be none at your own mehndi? I hope not for their sake...
Bottom line is, this is the first time PSA have done an event like this. I repeat, FIRST TIME. As in, this was kind of experimental. And in such cases, there are bound to be things that ppl like and also things that ppl don't like. So it is all well and good to give constructive criticism, but if you want to bash them for only trying to make a social event for you, why don't you run PSA instead? I'm sure with all your opinions, you would do a better job...
written by sameer khan , March 19, 2009
i am too much excitement of the formal of PSA. but i want to say is to everyone hoping that no one makes fun of the cultures of our beloved Pakistan. and i'm hoping that girls are not dancing on the shoulders with the boys.anyone know if DBR performing at the culture ewent? i really lau there beats too much yaar. could anyone pls inform myself of the dress code, is it wedding attire now bc last time we were mehndi attires. thnkx for ur help and maybe we all can get to know each other.
s.p. i am also available to give the interview to the man who asked on the 27th
written by sameer khan , March 20, 2009
listen desi gunda: you write this one, correct?:
"esl classes, it's about time you join one because your english is higher level english that only you understands."
yes it is correction that "only you understands" is not the proper terminology we use in the language. so i hope that you are in my esl class too, then i have a buddy to be buddy with. another sad and little silly thing is this you writes: "ok mr joker
now you laugh at you own diss"
i thinks "at you own diss" is not correct method .. so instead me laugh at me.. i laugh at you.. HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA.... ok??
also i dont get this zig zag joke.. you ask for line paper.. i give you straight line paper not one with zig zaggy lines on it.. how you write then?
ok and mr. bilal bhai please let me know yaar for this interview. im very much interested.
written by ateflover , April 07, 2009
sameer khan u sounds like my lover atef
the dulha shud been atef latef and dulhan me..wat sweet couple!
written by Mizz Pink , May 17, 2009
I didn't attend this event so I don't know whether it was entertaining or not, but the comments over here sure are. Judging by the comments, the event must've been pretty amusing too - perhaps other than in the ways intended by the PSA. Either way, I'm sure a lot of hard work went into it, as did into writing these comments. Keep it everyone teeheeheee.



