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By: Asad Haider

Bollywood has bestowed us with wonderful performances, excellent choreography and beautiful songs, yet it has also gifted us with expectations and presumptions about love and marriage. Enter…Asad Haider, someone you would find laughing at a desi wedding, standing awkwardly behind families taking pictures and making funny faces. He has been writing for different blogs like Chowk and DesiVibe. He is currently out of work, but most importantly he documents the personal and cultural struggle many young South Asians face today – the Love Marriage vs. Arrange Marriage struggle!